After staying a day with Sandee’s friends we decided to check-in to a local beach hotel and enjoy a couple days rest. The following morning we visited the beach and as we entered the water we were greeted by a couple from my former parish. Then another two ladies introduced themselves and soon a gentleman. There we were, seven of us chatting in the calm sea.
In a few minutes we realized that we were all connected in some way through the church. Sandee even commented jokingly that we can have a prayer service here in the water. Later, back in our room, I pondered the similarity with this week’s first reading Acts 2:1-11 ‘each one was hearing them speak in his own language’
I was amazed how naturally this little gathering had formed—no planning, no agenda, just a shared sense of faith and familiarity drawing us together in the sea. Each person brought a different story, yet somehow, like those gathered in Jerusalem at Pentecost, we understood each other effortlessly.
The water became a sacred space, much like the upper room must have felt—open, expectant, filled with quiet joy and communion. Later, I shared this with Sandee, and we both smiled at how the Spirit finds its way, even on vacation, even waist-deep in saltwater. It was a gentle reminder that the Church is not just a building, but a living body that shows up wherever hearts are open.
Reflecting on that spontaneous moment in the sea, I was reminded of the quiet but powerful way the Holy Spirit weaves connections among believers. It is not always dramatic or loud, but often subtle—like a warm thread linking hearts that were strangers just moments before. The Spirit builds bridges where there were none, helping us recognize in each other the presence of Christ.
In that water, the laughter, shared stories, and gentle teasing created more than camaraderie; it revealed the Spirit’s gift of communion. Relationships formed in the Spirit carry a depth and ease that feel both familiar and sacred, reminding us that wherever we go, we are part of something much larger—a spiritual family constantly being formed, renewed, and sent forth.
Later that evening, as we sat on the balcony watching the sunset, Sandee reflected on how her friends—the aging couple we had stayed with—had also shown signs of this same Spirit-filled connection. Despite their physical slowing down, there was a deep serenity and strength in their relationship, built over years of shared faith, prayer, and service.
It dawned on me that what we witnessed in the sea and in the quiet of their home was the same Holy Spirit at work—forming bonds, sustaining love, and renewing relationships over time. The Holy Spirit doesn’t just bring people together in a moment; it nurtures and deepens those connections, knitting together lives in unseen, enduring ways. Whether through new encounters or lifelong companionship, the Spirit is always building the Body of Christ, one relationship at a time.
Powerful, the church indeed is not just a building. It goes way beyond our human imagination. It is the connection of the heart.
Thanks so much for your beautiful insight.
When I read your post, it reminded me of a trip I made to Tunisia in 1999
I ended up at one point at a natural hot spring, where people were assembling in the lake around the spring letting the warm water cover their body. I was told it was a spiritual site and When I immersed myself in the water and stayed there with lots of people I didn’t know, I suddenly felt a sense of human bond, common purpose. Even though most of them were Muslims I felt at peace being surrounded with humanity in this sacred space.