I Call You Friends

In this week’s Gospel passage John 15: 15 Jesus says, ‘I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.’

He is expressing a profound shift in the relationship between himself and his disciples. In the cultural context of that time, a servant was expected to obey the commands of their master without question, often without fully understanding the master's intentions or plans. However, Jesus indicates that his disciples are more than just servants; they are friends. By calling them friends, Jesus signifies a deeper level of intimacy and trust in their relationship.

With the rise of social media and digital connections, the term "friend" has often been reduced to a mere label for someone in one's online network, rather than reflecting the depth and intimacy of true friendship.

True friendship, as exemplified in the teachings of Jesus and throughout history, involves mutual trust, support, understanding, and genuine care for one another's well-being. It's a relationship built on shared experiences, vulnerability, and a commitment to each other's growth and happiness.

Four weeks ago a small group of us started meeting weekly online to support each other in navigating our life transitions. I am deeply moved by the risk and vulerability of the sharings and as a consequence the bonds of support that have developed among us. I even mentioned to Sandee (my wife) that I am astonished at the capability of human connection over an online platform.

Yesterday I experienced heartwarming feelings of support and encouragement as I received emails from four persons expressing their gratitude for the daily reflections. Together with the experience of our Life Transitions group, my commitment to my online ministry has been kindled.

I can safely say that I can call many of you friends. And I believe - friends can change the world. Jesus calling us friends is so uplifting, trusting and intimate. His vulnerability in loving us to the cross and there saying ‘Father forgive them for they know not what they do’ exemplifies a a loving friendship that is so endearing and caring. ‘Jesus I love you too’ ‘Help me to love you more’.

Friends, this evening I kick off the Bible Reading and Study membership program with a welcoming video. I sincerely hope some of you will join me in this program.